The Hidden Pleasure of Staying Stuck
What If You Secretly Need the Pattern? Like if the pattern you keep trying to escape is giving you something you are not yet willing to live without…
I have been moving through a season of profound change and if I am honest, I don't think I fully understood what transformation meant when I first became interested in it. Like many people, I imagined it as a process of becoming more. More aware. More healed. More successful. More myself. There was always this subtle sense that transformation was somehow additive, that life would keep giving me new insights, new opportunities, new layers of understanding and that eventually all of those pieces would assemble into a more evolved version of who I was.
The State Before the Strategy
Why the state we live from may shape the reality we create
Lately I have been noticing something in my own life, and maybe you have felt it too. We become deeply committed to changing our lives. We create plans, write intentions, set goals, buy books, attend workshops and promise ourselves that this time things will be different. We gather strategies and search for the next step that will finally move us forward. Yet often, without realizing it, we attempt to create an entirely new reality from the same internal state that created the current one.